Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Some things don't work out.
I was watching an episode of Friends. Im not sure what season it was, the situation was that Rachel had just broken up with her boyfriend Joshua (he played Micha Barton’s dad in The O.C) and the reason that he broke her up was because Rachel got freaked out that Ross was getting married, and she asked Joshua to marry her. Joshua of course got even more freaked out and broke her up. Rachel said to Phoebe and Monica, that the real reason that she was sad wasn’t because she had lost Joshua, but because she wasn’t really handling the fact that Ross was getting married very well. It turns out that Rachel still hoped that she would somehow get back together with Ross again, as they always did. They broke up, but somehow they always patched things up again.
And it struck me really bad when I watched that; why is it that some things don’t work out? Why do we get our hearts broken over and over again, only to dust ourselves up and pick up the pieces. Why is it that some things are meant to be, only for a teenie weenie moment? And after that, they dissolve in nothingness.

3 comments:

- said...

in the words of Beyonce in Just Stand Up:
The heart is stronger than you think
It's like it can go through anything
And even when you think it can't, it finds a way to still push on, though

that's why when it hurts like crap, we can still go on... and why do we dust it off? cause basically, we LOVE love and the fuzzy warmth it gives in our tummies^^

lots of love stories end up as tragedies, u know... but i think that Great Love doesnt always have to have a Happily Ever After. i guess it can be expressed in many ways.. after all, there's a thin red line between love and lust lol

but who am i to talk, i'm just a simple love believer who just finished picking up the pieces of her shattered heart and still trying to superglue it back together^^

putri nirmala said...

hehehe, nisa... no comment buat kamu... [cuma bisa nyengir] Buat usi, urusan beginian emang complicated banget. Justru yang kayak mereka itu [rachel and ross] yang nantinya bakalan bertahan lama kisah cintanya, hehe, itu sih kalo menurut aku... Jalannya emang susah, belibet banget, rasanya kok gak ketemu2, mentok melulu, tapi seandainya bisa nemuin caranya [titik terangnya] pasti bakalan lancar sampai seterusnya. Itu yang aku harapin bisa aku dapet di akhir ceritaku sendiri, hohoho... [masih tentang mas yang mau merit itu, hehe]

- said...

let's face it..
we love LOVE...
we love loving, we love being loved, we love looking for love, we love being in love, etc..

it's a disease :p